ALL HUMAN BEINGS ARE BORN FREE.

One of the biggest mistakes I made in my early years was believing that love was all about identifying the right person. However, in actuality, love is about finding the perfect version of yourself. It is necessary for you to become a suitable individual for yourself before you can truly experience love from others. You truly need to learn how to be independent in this life, even while you may rely on other people for affection and other things of that nature. If you lack independence, you will constantly be dependent on others for that type of affection. If you can become the right person for yourself and rely on that love for yourself, you will not need anybody else in this life.

Copyright: GLYN HANDS BBC News.

What about the lonliness?

Let me ask you a question at this point: What do you do when you are alone? What do you do now that you are alone? Do you do anything to keep yourself busy? Do you do things that make you feel better when you’re alone, or do you do things to avoid being alone?

Your answer leads you to any type of path from here:

1. You’re going to grow dependent on others for your happiness
2. Alternatively, you might develop independence for satisfaction and the ability to discover worth in yourself and your own business.

There comes an instance, however, “when you have to decide when to learn how to be happy via staying alone all the time, content with having friends, content with not being in a relationship.” It is important because you cannot expect to discover pleasure within yourself if you are always surrounded by depressing ideas.

For real-life experience, consider social media, which offers momentary setbacks. You get there and scroll, and you notice individuals posting all around you. It makes you pleased to observe what’s going on in their lives. When you make yourself happy in this way, you are essentially making yourself happy with their possessions. You depend on them.

At the same time, what can you do? Think about yourself. You can always make yourself joyful. There are multiple possibilities. You may do a million things in a day, but it ultimately boils down to two possibilities.

1. Whether you do it

or

2. You don't do it.

Such options can open up a whole new set of possibilities to take. Those routes can significantly impact your other paths. Let’s assume you give someone a compliment that makes their day, and they complement someone else, which can prevent them from harming themselves. You can go so much further if you’re ready to stand back and see your impact on others. You’ll come to see how much your choices affect both your life and the lives of others around you.